12. How should brothers and sisters who live off-farm be included in planning for farm transfer?
Most advisors suggest that they should be included in the planning for farm transfer, but the contribution made over the
years by the son or daughter who stayed on the farm should be rewarded. That could mean that the distribution of farm
assets might not be equitable. This should be discussed in advance.
13. How can a son or daughter bring up the issue of a parent’s failing health?
They should introduce the subject carefully and with great respect for their parents’ feelings. Parents should
be allowed to make the decision about their own well-being unless there is danger involved. For example, if it is not
safe for an older person to drive because of impaired eyesight or hearing.